Your Choices
Decisions Defining Your Legacy
This section is your guide to understanding the full spectrum of choices surrounding death, dying, and after-death care. From planning and legal documents to funeral support, body disposition, memorials, and green alternatives, these pages explain what’s required, what’s optional, and where you can find trustworthy help. Whether you’re organizing your own plans or supporting someone else, this section gives you the tools to make informed, personal, and meaningful decisions—at every stage of the process.
Don’t forget to visit The Planning Project as well!
End-of-Life Professionals
From gerontologists to death doulas, the End-of-Life Professionals section explores the wide range of professionals who provide guidance, care, and support in end-of-life planning and decision-making.
Funeral Support Services
Funeral Support Services outlines your options for caring for a body after death—from licensed funeral providers regulated by federal and state law to home funeral guides who help families care for their own dead. It explains the rules, responsibilities, and resources to help you make informed and meaningful choices.
Body Disposition
The Body Disposition section explains the legal and practical options for what happens to your body after death—including burial, cremation, donation, and alternative methods—so you and your loved ones can make informed, lawful, and personally meaningful choices.
Caskets & Urns
The Caskets & Urns section covers the physical elements that hold or honor the body after death—such as caskets, urns, etc. It explains what’s required by law, what’s optional, and how to choose options that fit your values, budget, and environmental preferences.
Memorial Markers
The Memorial Markers section highlights the many ways to honor a life—from traditional headstones and plaques to benches, trees, and digital memorials. Whether simple or elaborate, these markers serve as lasting symbols of remembrance and love.
Obituaries & Messaging
The Obituaries & Messaging section explores how to share news of a death and celebrate a life through written and digital communication. It covers traditional obituaries, memorial posts, social media announcements, and legacy websites, offering guidance on what to include, how to write them with care, and ways to honor someone’s story authentically.
Services & Ceremonies
The Services & Ceremonies section highlights the many ways people honor and remember a life—through funerals, memorial services, celebrations of life, or private rituals. It offers ideas for planning meaningful gatherings, understanding legal or logistical requirements, and creating ceremonies that reflect the values, culture, and personality of the person being remembered.
Green Options
The Green Options section explores environmentally conscious choices for after-death care and burial. It explains natural burial grounds, biodegradable caskets and urns, water cremation, human composting, and carbon-neutral memorials, along with tips for reducing waste. Whether your goal is conservation, simplicity, or leaving a lighter footprint, this section helps you understand the growing movement toward earth-friendly end-of-life practices.
Veterans
The Veterans page provides guidance tailored to U.S. military veterans and their families, covering the benefits, burial options, and support services available through the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) and related organizations. It explains how to access veterans cemeteries, memorial honors, financial assistance, and survivor benefits, helping ensure that those who served receive the dignity, recognition, and care they have earned.